Culture Happens — With or Without Intention
Every workplace has a culture — but without intention, investment, and careful shepherding, that culture can quickly become chaotic. Organizations never aim for a terrible working environment. Yet it happens… because smart, ambitious humans are thrown together and expected to figure out how to collaborate, Survivor-style.
When teams begin to unravel, “Band-Aid fixes” only delay deeper issues. Sustainable culture change comes from fostering compassion and connection — vertically and horizontally. It starts with a simple truth:
Culture isn’t a perk – it’s a system we build together.
And it starts with a simple truth: how we show up matters.
Culture Is Built Through Relationship
My work has focused on shifting the narrative from “engaged employees” to connected humans. Bringing teams together meaningfully is at the heart of what I do.
To do this successfully, teams must develop:
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Self-awareness
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Awareness of others
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A foundation of trust
Then leaders can build skills that decrease destructive conflict and increase productive conflict — while activating leadership far beyond the org chart.
The Culture Blueprint: Four Key Components
1️⃣ Engagement
2️⃣ Personalities
3️⃣ Connected Teams
4️⃣ Cultural Evaluation
This blueprint addresses every layer of human interaction at work. It begins with understanding the current reality — how people interact, communicate, and perceive one another. From there, learning is tailored to the team’s needs, including coaching where needed.
When purpose aligns with shared action across the organization — top to bottom — transformation becomes possible. It’s not magic. It’s people.
Managers account for at least 70% of variance in employee engagement scores.¹
Engagement Starts with People
We each show up with different motivators, priorities, and stressors. And the people closest to us feel the ripple effects — for better or for worse.
We all brighten a room – some do it when they walk in, others when they walk out.
Organizations need two core ingredients to build a place people love to work:
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A clear plan to navigate the “people” work
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Genuine buy-in for a shared cultural vision
Step 2 — Personalities
Any Strength Taken to Excess Becomes a Weakness
There is often a gap between how we think we show up and how others experience us. Personality styles — shaped by wiring, culture, history, and life experience — create different lenses through which we operate.
Without awareness, this leads to misunderstanding. And misunderstanding leads to frustration.
Emotional stress can be both a cause and effect of conflict.² That’s why understanding each other’s intensions or style matters — there is no “superstar” personality. Every style holds brilliance.
Diversity of Personality Makes Teams Stronger
Personality diversity isn’t just valuable — it’s critical.
This work gives teams:
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A shared language
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Insight into different styles
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Tools to adapt communication to others’ needs
Because showing up how others need is far more effective than showing up how we prefer.
When teams embrace differences with empathy instead of judgment, culture strengthens.
Step 3 — Connected Teams
The Way We Team Matters
Throwing talented people together does not equal a successful team.
Skills in collaboration must be learned and practiced — repeatedly.
Humans tend to:
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Assume others think like we do
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Attribute behavior to personality instead of situation (the fundamental attribution error)⁴
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Blame others before examining our own role
This is why miscommunication is one of the greatest sources of stress, conflict, and disengagement at work.
Step 4 — Cultural Evolution
You Can’t Change People — Only Yourself
Meaningful culture change doesn’t ask people to become someone different.
It invites them to see differently.
Shifting perspective can unlock new possibilities for connection.
This is hard — and transformational — for individuals and for teams.
The continual learning model — a framework I created to help teams strengthen habits over time — reinforces:
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Trust-building behaviors
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Productive conflict skills
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Collaboration strategies
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Habit shifts through repeated practice
Culture change isn’t a one-and-done training.
It’s a daily relational practice.
A Culture (R)evolution
A “negative employee experience” is rarely anyone’s intention. People want to do good work — with and for good humans. When we understand the impact of how we show up, and take action accordingly, we change everything.
I believe people are inherently brilliant. And when you give them the right tools and environment, their brilliance becomes collective strength — inside the organization and far beyond it.
We each shape the environment we create — and how we show up matters.
Footnotes
¹ Gallup workplace research — Manager influence on engagement scores
² Research on stress-conflict cycle in workplace psychology
⁴ Ross, L. (1977), “The Intuitive Psychologist and His Shortcomings: Distortions in the Attribution Process.”
